(formerly That bitch Therapy, always a little bit fairy, always a little bit feral)

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“Be that bitch” started as an embracement, a reclamation of attitude, of sass and silliness - a reminder that anyone can be that bitch, derogatory or not. Everyone has a version of themselves they’re afraid to meet, and secretly desperate to become.
 

 Over time, the name softened and expanded. It became That Therapy: still bold, still irreverent, still mythic, but spacious enough to hold all your parts - the baddie, the fairy, the dork, the shadow, the animal, the soft creature.

At its core, this work rests on a simple belief: you are made of many selves - mind, body, instinct, symbol, story, and spirit - and all of them deserve room to breathe.

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I work intuitively with clients, drawing from evidence-based psychology, somatic practice, mythic imagination, and lived experience. Not to diagnose or pathologise - but to discuss and chat all things pleasure and play. Not to heal them, but to help them heal themselves - to hear their own signals, follow their own instincts, and rebuild trust in their own inner world.

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Anyone can be that version of themselves - grounded, unapologetic, self-respecting, erotic, curious, discerning, alive. There is no gender, no aesthetic, no performance attached to it. It is simply the you that waits beneath the noise.

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In this space we explore the psychology, philosophy, instinct, and identity woven through self and sexuality. It’s not just talk therapy, and it’s not just somatic work - it’s a holistic, psychologically informed, body-literate approach that includes education, embodiment, shadow work, nervous system regulation, and the slow unravelling of shame. ​

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It is therapy for the parts of you that don’t fit into polite conversation;
For the instincts you’ve muted.
For the pleasure you’ve never been permitted to claim.
For the boundaries you’ve been too scared to set.
For the versions of you that feel too dramatic, too emotional, too sensitive, too sexual, too much - or not enough.

 

And yes - this space welcomes all your inner creatures. We are never just clinical, never just neat. 
The wild-eyed fairies, witches, bitches, dorks, warlocks, and hidden archetypes that make up your whole multifaceted personal mythology are welcome here. Your lore if you will.

Together, we create a kind of internal harem - a cohort of selves wholly devoted to their own wellbeing, pleasure and play, curiosity, and unapologetic power. Sexual or not, sacred or silly, feral or refined, they all have a place here. A playground for the instincts, the small rebellions, the quiet rites of becoming. Not as fantasy, but as metaphor for the unruly, unashamed life waiting for you.​

 

Ultimately, That Therapy is an invitation to take up space without apology.
To explore what feels authentic, erotic, grounded, or sacred.

To recognise the parts of you that feel magical or mundane and understand that every one of them matters.

This work helps you build a life in which you are deeply devoted to yourself - your pleasure, your clarity, your curiosity, your regulation, your meaning-making, and your aliveness.​

 

A quiet rebellion.
A personal mythology.
A reclamation of the whole creature you are.

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