Well, hello. Fancy seeing you here.

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I am Chelsea Liley, and welcome to my online world.

A choose your own adventure fairy tale of sorts, where you can delve as deep into my work as you feel called to.
From the pov of a weird & erotic therapist, artist, educator, horse rider, dancer, body worker, shibari performer and smut writer.

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My professional titles are psycho-sexologist and somatic therapist, but if that sounds like a mouthful, you could consider me a sex nerd.

With 10+ years learning and working in the well-being field, or you could say a lifetime, what started at a young age, from my innocently smutty twilight days, to teaching my year 9 peers the difference between cut and uncut.
Somehow the stars aligned and I made it into a career. My role is to guide individuals and couples to explore their relationship with sex and sexuality, whether their desires are to connect more fully with pleasure, explore an alternative pathway they have always been curious about, or work through layers of trauma or pain in a supportive, therapeutic setting.
To be what I needed when I was younger — someone who trusted my curiosity, encouraged safe exploration, and helped me learn to love my shadows instead of being controlled by them. So I hold a space that is human first and foremost — safe enough for you to stretch, question, and unpack stigma and shame. Beyond diagnosis, division, or limiting narratives. Because sexuality without inherent taboo is innocent and deeply human, and from that place sex can feel playful, creative and deeply fulfilling, even if it feels scary. 

 

My mission is to create a new narrative around the way we view sex. My work recognises the importance and depth within all relationships (not just those that are sexual), explores emotional awareness and wellbeing, conscious communication and integral intimacy on a level that has the power to promote inner healing. I started my journey of studying people through Psychology, but that felt too cold and clinical a perspective towards humanity.
So that led me to a masters in Sexology, studying the science of desire and arousal. Along the way I discovered spirituality; did trainings in tantra, reiki, equine therapy, shibari, massage, embodiment and bodywork. So just like how my hair colour changes on the regular, my services are multi-faceted and can take on a wilder edge for those looking to dive further down the rabbit hole into all things sassy, silly, sensual and sadistic. The pleasure and the play - the magic in the mundane. 

 

So, if you want to learn more about the way I work with clients, or want to read the inner mechanisms of my mind, then pick your fairy…